Counselling for Young People

I provide counselling to teenagers and young adults from the ages 11+.  I recognise life can be hard at times and growing up can be a difficult and a confusing time with many pressures from school, peer groups, friendships, family dynamics as well as other stressors.  Whilst support from parents/carers and family members can be beneficial for your child to be able to talk to someone they know, it may not always be enough and at these times coming to counselling can be helpful.  I can offer your child a safe, confidential environment to express their thoughts and feelings and understand about what is going on in their life.  

My background is rooted in education so I am very familiar with the pressures young people face.  Some common themes that can come up in counselling are; exam stress, anxiety, depression, peer pressure, self-harm, bullying, low self-esteem and family breakdowns.  I have worked with teenagers and young adults in education, residential settings and in a counselling role. 

My approach is child-led where your child can choose what to do or talk about, and I join in and support them.  I will follow their pace to help them to feel safe, heard and confident to explore their thoughts and feelings whilst still having guidance off me as needed.  Typically, most of the time in sessions we will be talking together, or we can work in a creative way such as using pens, paint, paper, cards, games and other creative materials to help expression.  I tailor this approach to each individual, their ability and needs and I encourage them to make their own decision to see if they want to work this way. 

Confidentiality

I offer counsellor-client confidentiality, and this applies to young people as well as adults.  This means that your child is free to talk about what they want to bring with confidence.  Sessional information will not be shared with parents, caregivers or family members unless your child has consented to this, or there is a concern they are a danger to themselves or others.  There are at times certain limitations to confidentiality but this will be discussed in more detail in the first session.

The Next Steps

I invite parent/caregivers to contact me and talk through what is happening in your child’s life.  During this discussion I can let you know how the counselling process works and how we can work together to support your child.  Before meeting with your child I will send out some information about the way I work which explains the therapeutic relationship and the boundaries around this.

Children and young people counselling

 

I encourage young people to come into the counselling room on their own, however if they are feeling particular nervous, it may be necessary for you to spend 10 minutes in the room so they feel at ease whilst we get to know each other.  Typically, over the first few sessions your child and I will get to know each other, it can often take a little longer to start to build a therapeutic relationship.  During this time, I will share the therapeutic agreement with them, discuss their hopes, goals and wishes for counselling and answer any questions they may have.

Sessions are £45.00 for 1 hour

If you would like any more information, please do not hesitate to get in touch with me through the contact form on my website or alternatively you can contact me via telephone, text or email.

Please have a look below of some of the creative tools and exercises I can use.

Grounding tools for clients

Some grounding tools to use if clients feel anxious or want to focus better.

Teem talk for conversation

Teen talk in a jar is something I use with teenagers at the beginning of starting counselling because it can be a good ice breaker activity and conversation starter.

Jenga

Therapeutic Jenga is a great resource to get to know clients, talk about feelings and discuss more difficult topics.  Fun resource for children and young people.

Mood Cards

Mood cards are a fun resource I use with adults and young people too.  Using this creative tool it helps clients identify and explore their emotions or mood.

Cards against anxiety

Cards against anxiety is a brilliant and practical resource.  It is full of coping-skills for anxiety and calming techniques.

Identity

One of my favourite self-portrait creative exercise to use with young people and I call it Inside/Outside self-portrait.